If Ian Brown’s column, “Why men can’t – and shouldn’t – stop staring at women” is trolling for page views, like has been suggested to me, and is not in fact an attempt at an honest reflection about sexuality, then I’ve played right into their skeevy hands. I’ve read, and re-read, and re-read this column. I’ve been trying to identify why I found it so upsetting, why I had an immediate, physical response to the words. Why I felt creeped out and uncomfortable. Why I felt a sudden urge to wrap myself up in a blanket. Continue reading »